On the value of winning
I think winning is a dirty word to some people. I used to think that way, but it's simply not true. Competition in itself is not evil. Losing teaches lessons that can turn into positive experiences just as much as winning can. Similarly, winning a debate, a legal case, or writing an award-winning book can even be victories in the public consciousness of truth, goodness, and beauty.
[1]Christianity and Winning
I think that Christians should fight to win (see Proverbs 24:1-11). And I don't mean simply using violence. I'm nearly a pacifist.
[2] I fear that Christians frequently believe that effort and strategy are opposed to grace. They also believe that victory and winning are not valid goals.
I wanted to win all the next fights: Ender's Game
One of the most poignant passages in all of literature about winning is in
Ender's Game. For context, bullies surround a younger bore to torment him when there was no surveillance to keep him safe. He was smaller than his assailants, but he destroyed the gang leader with frightening efficiency. Afterward, a military officer questions the boy in front of his parents to determine why he fought so ferociously:
“We’re willing to consider extenuating circumstances,” the officer said.“But I must tell you it doesn’t look good. Kicking him in the groin, kicking him repeatedly in the face and body when he was down— it sounds like you really enjoyed it.”